Episode #49: Real-life grace for the Enneagram Nine with Karen Gauvreau

What is it like to be an Enneagram Nine? How can we avoid settling for a false peace? Is expressing what you need and want not as selfish as it seems?

In this interview, writer, wife, mom, and Enneagram Nine Karen Gauvreau shares with us:

How not to be a wishy-washy mom
Three reasons why Nines are resistant to bringing up their hurt feelings
And how not to talk to a Nine,

If you are a Nine, know or love a Nine, or have never met a Nine, this episode is so insightful in helping you:

You learn two practical ways to get better at expressing your needs, wants, and dreams,
And what it looks like to carve out time for your dreams even when little people are in the house.

If you’re ready for some wisdom and enlightenment, listen in.

Key Quotes

“When you’re not able to deal with conflict… you’re not giving relationships a chance to go deeper.” – Karen Gauvreau
“Find friends who will draw you out and not just let you listen.” – Karen Gauvreau
“We can encourage our kids to see beyond themselves. When we accommodate all the time, we’re not giving them a chance to grow those muscles.” – Karen Gauvreau
“We have to show grace to our bumpy bits.” – Karen Gauvreau
“Help us know we don’t have to prove anything.” – Karen Gauvreau
“There’s no value in beating ourselves up.” – Karen Gauvreau
“Embrace the whole package.” – Karen Gauvreau
“You are you, and just be your amazing self. That’s how you’ll serve your people best.” – Karen Gauvreau
“Our gifts to the world don’t have to be loud or sparkly. They can be quiet and gentle words and wisdom.” – Karen Gauvreau